Where to Scatter Ashes of a Loved One

After a loved one is cremated, some families prefer to scatter the ashes, rather than keep them in an urn. Scattering the ashes of your loved one can provide closure for you and your family. Many families like to create a memorial event out of scattering ashes, and use it as another way to honor the loved one with family and friends. Families often choose a place that meant a lot to the deceased, such as their favorite park or their home. This article will discuss some common places to scatter the ashes and what regulations you may have to consider when scattering. 

Private Property

Scattering on your own or their own private property is something that might mean a lot to your family. If your loved one maintained a garden, you may want to scatter their ashes there.
If the private property is owned by someone else, you should obtain permission from the property owner to scatter ashes there. 

Scattering Cemeteries

Many cemeteries have gardens maintained for the scattering of ashes. These scattering gardens are special areas that often feature beautiful flowers and other plants to make the space feel serene. These areas follow scattering regulations, and the ashes help grow the flowers. Scattering gardens are peaceful and beautiful, and are a great place for a memorial ceremony. Contact your local cemetery for any information regarding their scattering gardens.

Controlled Public Parks

City parks and local public land generally require a permit to scatter ashes. You should contact the park staff or your local government to acquire a permit. Park staff may even recommend areas in the park that would be better for the scattering. Areas like the Greenbelt or a state park would be considered a controlled park. If your loved one spent a lot of time in a park or walking the trails of one, it can be a great way to honor their memory.

Scattering Ashes on Uncontrolled Public Land

For public land that is not directly controlled or cared for, such as sections of the Appalachian Trail that are outside of state parks, there are no federal laws requiring a permit or contacting authorities. However, this can vary by state or county. If you wish to scatter in these areas, you should move at least 100 yards from trails, roads, or water sources. This is a great option for hikers or those who enjoy nature.

Burial At Sea

Scattering ashes at sea is not an uncommon choice in New York. By law, you need to be at least 3 nautical miles from shore to scatter ashes. Many private boating services can take you out to a far enough spot for scattering ashes at sea. Scattering at sea does not require permits, but you should notify the EPA within 30 days after the scattering ceremony if you are within US waters. US territory extends 200 nautical miles from the coastline. 

Scattering On Inland Waters

Some people would like to scatter ashes in a lake, pond, or river that was meaningful to their loved one. You might choose their favorite fishing spot or a memorable family trip. The Clean Water Act has regulations on this. You will likely need to acquire a permit from the state or local government in the area where you wish to scatter the ashes. 

For over 50 years, Matthew Funeral Home has been serving the Staten Island community. We can help with almost every aspect of your loved one’s memorial service. Our family is here to serve yours, every step of the way.