Why Support Matters in Grief

By: Matthew Funeral Home
Friday, May 15, 2026

After the loss of a loved one, it is common to be burdened with grief. For those coping with grief, support from friends and family can make a huge difference, but it may be difficult to ask for. Supporting a grieving loved one in their time of need can be essential to their recovery during their hardship. This article will explore why support matters for those who are grieving. 

Supportive Care During Grief

Supporting a grieving loved one can come in many forms. From assistance at home to just spending time with them. Help your loved one find joy in their life again. Many people tend to lapse in their care for themselves during this time. Help them find the energy to care for and maintain themselves. Even dropping off a tray of food or helping them with errands can make a big difference.

Support From Different Loved Ones

Support networks can make a big difference. Consider coordinating with friends and family members to ensure that your loved one has support when they need it. Everyone likely has differing work schedules or obligations. Coordinating your support with others can help your loved one feel like there is always someone to talk to when they need.

Professional Care Support For Grief

Healing in grief can come in many forms. And not everyone truly “heals” from their grief. While supporting and caring for your loved one can be vital, you may not be able to do it all. Consider talking with them about exploring professional grief support. This can come in the form of grief support groups, counseling, or even therapy. They may need to try more than one form of professional support to find the one that works for them. 

The author of this post is not a professional therapist or counselor. For more personalized grief care, find a grief counselor who is right for you. For our Grief Resource Center, written by Dr. Bill Webster, click here

For over 50 years, Matthew Funeral Home has been serving the Staten Island community. We can help with almost every aspect of your loved one’s memorial service. Our family is here to serve yours, every step of the way.

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