25 Years After 9/11

    Every year, Americans remember those we lost in the tragic 9/11 attacks in 2001. But for many New Yorkers, the tragedy was much more personal. For many of us, 9/11 affected those close to us. Many New Yorkers lost or know someone who lost a friend or family member to the attacks, or someone who died from health complications associated with it. Now, on its 25th anniversary, it is important to look to those experiencing personal grief today. 

Personal and Communal Grief

    The events of 9/11 affected the entire country in some way. We came together to help each other after a tragedy. For New Yorkers, many remember fire departments and volunteers from across the country coming to help clear rubble and aid in rescue efforts. Many people enlisted in the armed forces because of the attacks. For many, 9/11 was a rallying call to protect the country. However, for many of us living in New York City and the surrounding area, this tragedy was a lot more personal. Many of us lost loved ones. Mothers, daughters, sons, and fathers were lost that day. Civilians and first responders alike were lost that day, and each year, those families remember those that they have lost.

First Responders and Those With Health Issues After 9/11

    The burning of the Twin Towers left many survivors and first responders with additional health risks, long after the tragic day. The dust and debris have been linked to an increase in cancer risks, respiratory issues such as asthma or sleep apnea, and mental health conditions like PTSD or depression. Even people living or working in the surrounding area from the towers may have been affected. Each year, more New Yorkers are linking their developed health issues with the towers falling. 

Supporting Those Dealing With Personal Grief 

    Everyone processes grief differently. And with such a personal matter put into a national spotlight, it can be hard for those families to experience a true moment of peace to mourn the anniversary of their loved one’s passing. Additionally, some people may feel like this national attention can take away from the individuals whose lives were lost that day. If a friend or family member is struggling with grief during this time, try to support them however you can. Sometimes, just being there for them can be a huge help.

The author of this post is not a professional therapist or counselor. For more personalized grief care, find a grief counselor who is right for you. For our Grief Resource Center, written by Dr. Bill Webster, click here. 

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