Obituary of Victoria A. Ottomanelli

Victoria Ann Ottomanelli, age 72, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on March 26, 2020 after a 21-month-long battle with brain cancer. Vicki was born in the Bronx to the late William and Anna Fehrman and has been a resident of Staten Island since the early 1970's. While at Pace University, Vicki was the youngest female bookkeeper ever hired at US Steel. After raising three children, Vicki returned to college, graduating from the College of Staten Island with a degree in business. After graduation, she went to work at Maltese, Potter, and LaMarca, and retired after 25 years. Vicki was a very active and engaged member of her community. As a young mother in Manhattan, she helped to establish the Downing Street Playgroup. On Staten Island, she was a member of the PTAs at both PS 22 and IS 51, where she also served as treasurer. More recently, she volunteered at PS22 as a reading helper and volunteered at the Crossroads Foundation. She was a proud member of the Staten Island Grandmothers Club. Vicki was generous with her friendship and enjoyed traveling with her sister and girlfriends around the US and on cruises. She was a fierce mahjong competitor, enjoying weekly games with friends. She endured the good-natured teasing of all who joked about her "official summer wardrobe" of white pants. But for Vicki it was all about family. Nothing made her happier than time with her family and she absolutely adored her time with her grandchildren. To celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary, Vicki, Jerry, their children and grandchildren spent a week at a villa in Tuscany, sightseeing, cooking, eating, drinking, dancing, and hanging out at the pool. Years of driving on Staten Island prepared Vicki well for the experience of driving in Italy. Vicki is survived by her beloved husband of 53 years, the love of her life, her "Babe," Gennaro (Jerry) Ottomanelli, who she met on a blind date when she was only 18. She leaves behind her cherished children Krisann Lukas and husband Paul, Jon Ottomanelli and wife Barbara, and Dawn Wozencroft and husband Chris; her treasured grandchildren Emily Lukas and fiancée Nick Gioia, Danielle, Samantha, and Hannah Lukas, and Christopher and Kathryn Wozencroft. She was the dear sister of Bill Fehrman, his wife Sheila and Betty Ann Vidal. She was loved by many nieces and nephews. In light of the current health crisis, limited calling hours will be held on Monday, March 30th from 9:30-11am at Matthew Funeral Home, Inc. A private interment for the family will follow. The family hopes you will join them for a memorial celebration of Victoria's life at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Vicki's memory to your favorite charity.