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Raffy Kilayko posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, July 22, 2021
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Hello my friend! We spoke 2 months before you passed away. I knew you were sick but I did not know we will lose you 2 months later. We were supposed to meet up too. You are missed my friend. I remember all your basketball post up moves when we played in the parks of Staten Island like it was yesterday, all the places in the Philippines that you wanted me to visit because you have been to those places...my memories of Coron was amazing! You were a good person Jay and you will be missed by everyone. Miss you brother! Raffy Kilayko
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Tita Nenette uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 22, 2020
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My everdearest and first fave nephew, Jay…
It has been a month since you left us to join your Creator in heaven. The feeling of sadness is so much in my heart; it still bleeds in deep sorrow. It’s really very painful…it broke my heart. I miss you dearly knowing you will no longer be around to show how much you care for me as one of your fave auntie… but I’m still grateful to God coz He did not allow you to suffer any longer.
I remember when you were a little boy, I lived in Sisa apartment with your family for a while and I had the chance to take care and play with you. That was so precious… we have a special bond coz you were my fave nephew being the first boy and the only one at that time. [Although I love all my nephews and nieces and they are all my favorite.] When you and Ryan and your mom went to New York, everything changed. We were not in touch for a while but when you started working, you came back to the Philippines and we had a chance to catch up. You promised to come back once a year for a short vacation and scuba diving, you always made time to call or see me. When you heard that I was having some personal problems, you wanted me to go to NY. You promised to help me start a new life there but I kept changing my plans. It took so long but when eventually I went to NY in 2015, you were so happy. You ensured that I was okay; you bought me a phone that I used while in US. You freed up your weekends to bring me around NY. You even wanted us to go to Florida to see Ryan, Ivy and baba Christopher…but I messed up with your schedule coz I went to VA Beach. Of course I cannot forget our late night escapades going to Cheesecake Factory…dinner in Manhattan…and that candlelight dinner in a Spanish resto in New Jersey with your Mom. I will never forget your thoughtfulness, kindness and generosity. Thank you for spending time with me and Tito Rigor in your last trip to the Philippines…it was awesome!...Now that you’re gone, I know that you will always be our angel in heaven. Rest in peace my dearest nephew…I love you so much…I will surely miss you forever.
Love,
Tita Nenette
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RJ lit a candle
Sunday, June 21, 2020
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Dear, Kuya Jay
Thank You. Thank you for being who you are till the last minute you had. Thank you for being the kuya I needed growing up. Thank you for letting me be part of your life. I may not have the same amount of time with you as much as my cousins did but you were always there for me. Your impact on my life is so astronomical, I can never forget the most important lesson that you have ever taught me and I'm proud that I get to live it till its my time. "It doesn't matter what people thinks you if your proud of who you are. Who cares if you're just a cashier, who cares if you're a high-school drop out? What matters is that you're proud of who you are." Its because of you that I learned to always go after what I love. I never had the chance to tell you this but you were my inspiration on making the big decision to move back to the Philippines. You talked about it so much that I also wanted to experience it. Im devastated I cant experience it with you. I'm sorry that I couldn't be there for the last moments but I'm glad that you and i were able to say goodbye before you left man. You weren't perfect but you were the best role model,cousin,God brother and kuya.May you rest in eternal paradise. Thank you for everything you have done for me.
Love always,
RJ
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Monday, June 15, 2020
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My everdearest Jay....
Thank you for the wonderful memories...thank you for always being there for me...thank you for consistently making time for me no matter how tight your schedules have been. Thank you for loving me and for making me feel special. You are truly an angel. I remember when I went to New York in 2015. You were so excited...you made me feel so welcome! You are such a generous, loving and caring nephew. On my 3rd day in NY you made sure that I have a phone that I can use and not depend so much on free wifi. You bought me a phone to be used while in the US. You were so thoughtful and made sure that you would call me regularly if not everyday just to check on me. You asked me to list down all the places in New York that I want to see and promised to bring me around during weekends. We even planned of a long drive to go to Florida to meet Ryan's wife and to meet Baba Christopher....it didn't push through cozI went to VA Beach instead...really sorry I messed up with your schedule. We were supposed to watch a broadway musical but our schedules would not match. So many missed opportunities but I really enjoyed that night when we went to Cheesecake Factory....and I really enjoyed our threesome candle light dinner with Ate Baby (your mom) in a Spanish resto in New Jersey...that was definitely an awesome experience!...and so many happy memories in New York...plus countless memories in the Philippines...our Scuba Diving weekends , fine dining in 5star hotels etc etc...how can I ever forget your thoughtfulness...we have so many plans...but you got sick...and my world has changed...it was worrisome...sad..and no certainties...suddenly it was difficult to talk about future plans...because you will be under medicarion for as long as you live. You wanted to see me and my Love on our wedding day coz you said you'll be one of the happiest guest on that day...you're gone now but I know that you will be watching us when that time comes! Rest now my dearest nephew...rest in peace Jay...i love you so dearly!
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Tito Toti and Tita Maristel uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, June 11, 2020
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My memories of Jay dates back many years ago when he was an adorable child. I also remember him during his elementary school days because he used to show me his good grades, and then we went together to the nearby store to buy a case of Coke as his reward. I believe that he got his love for Coke from his Grandma. And, collectively, my memories of him had been positively enriched throughout the years.
He grew up before our eyes to be a kind, compassionate, and lovable human being. We especially appreciated the way Jay interacted with his brother and cousins. As the oldest one in his generation, he reached out to them, supported their dreams, and became their #1 cheerleader when one of them took on new roles and responsibilities.
Jay also showed us how precious his mother was to him. He loved and cared for her very much. He made sure to celebrate her during her special days. His words and actions were truly heart-warming.
We hope that each one of us will hold on to our wonderful memories of Jay. Both of us will always treasure the last conversation we had with him when he told us “I love you. I will never forget you. I love everybody.”
We love you, Jay. Rest in peace our beloved nephew. Until we meet again.
Love,
Tito Toti and Tita Maristel
Randy Santander uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, June 6, 2020
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Dear Kuya Jay,
Thank you for helping raise me, my siblings, & our cousins. You are the epitome of what a "Kuya" is. Thank you for teaching me the fundamentals of basketball & how to swing a golf club. I could really use your help right now with my golf swing.
Thank you for teaching me life lessons on humility, respect, & how to treat others. I was always such a sore loser. Thank you for sharing with me your love for food. Your bbq skewers were the best!
Most of all, thank you for teaching me the importance of family. Kuya Ryan recently told me that you said, I was your little boy. You were there for me during a troubled time in my life & I am forever grateful & indebted to you. Thank you for loving me as if I was your little boy. I will cherish all the good times & special bond we had. I will miss your high energy, sense of humor, infectious laugh, & cooking. Rest easy Kuya Jay. I love & miss you dearly.
Love,
Randy
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Melanie uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, June 4, 2020
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Kuya Jay,
Thank you for being the older brother I never had. You taught me many things like driving and how to bowl so that I would be ready for my HS games. You always made time for me and my sisters. I’ll never forget the time you took us to Blockbuster to rent “The Babysitters Club” and cooked us spaghetti, stuffing, and biscuits for dinner. You always knew how to fix our computer when Melissa did something to the internet. More importantly you always knew how to make us laugh until our sides hurt.
Thank you for everything. I love and miss you.
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Melissa Lavides posted a condolence
Thursday, June 4, 2020
Dear Kuya Jay,
You are loved and admired by so many, and you have made such a lasting impact on our lives.
You embraced being a Kuya with all your heart.
Thank you for sharing family stories, memories and traditions. Thank you for using your special sense of humor to comfort me. Thank you for teaching me how to hook my bowling ball. Thank you for making every effort to show your support and celebrate important milestones. Most importantly, thank you for teaching me the importance of family.
Thank you for being my Kuya.
In honor of your memory, I will do my best to share what you have taught me.
I miss you so much. May you rest in peace.
Love always, Melissa "Zsa Zsa"
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Mark uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, June 3, 2020
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Kuya Jay,
Thank you for everything you’ve done and taught me. I’ll always remember all the times we shared and the joy and laughter you bring, and I can’t forget those huge steaks from Arthurs! From the many life lessons you taught, stories you shared; you were always supportive and encouraging. Through the good and bad, you were always there for me. You showed me the importance of family and led by example. You redefined meaning of “kuya”. The bonds you shared with me and with everyone will never be broken or forgotten. Wherever we end up in the world, I know you’ll be up there watching over, guiding all of us, and cracking a few jokes with grandma while drinking some s-o-d-a. Your legacy, the things you taught all of us lives on through each one of us. Miss you Kuya Jay. God’s got you now and I know He’s happy with the job you’ve done, till we meet again... Rest in Peace Kuya...
-Mark “otoy”
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Jonathan uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 2, 2020
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My deepest condolence to Tita Baby, Ryan, and to all of Jayjay's loving family. Thank you Tito Toti for reaching out.
Jayjay and I used to be next door neighbors when we were young. I always looked forward to spending time with him. He was a gentle and fair playmate. We always had a fun time together. At that young age, I looked up to him not only as a friend, but more like a big brother.
In joining your family in prayers this week, I can feel how much you've meant to many. I can see that you've graced this Earth with much love for everyone. I am so lucky to have known you old friend.
Rest in peace Jayjay. May you find comfort now in the hands of the Lord.
Much love,
Jonathan
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Jessica uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 2, 2020
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Dear Kuya Jay,
Thank you for always supporting me, from when I was just a baby to more recently when I would talk to you about my experiences in graduate school — you were always just a text or a phone call away. You always emphasized how important family was, and we all looked up to you so much since you were the oldest cousin, our brother, our Kuya.
I will always remember the happy memories we had, like grabbing drinks after work, or going to random concerts together. Thank you for all the life lessons you taught us, like teaching us how to drive, or how to fish even if we weren’t very good at it.
I hope you and Grandma are drinking some Coca-Cola and laughing together in heaven.
Rest In Peace
Love,
Jessica
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Mutya posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, June 1, 2020
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Condolences po Tita Baby, Ryan and family.
We will always remember Jay Jay as someone who is always happy, smiling, kind and malambing. Rest in peace Jay Jay.
From: Nanay Lilang, Ray, Rex, and Mutya
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Melodie lit a candle
Sunday, May 31, 2020
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Dear Kuya Jay,
I miss you and I still had so much I wanted to learn from you, but I am happy to know you can be at peace now with grandma. To me, you were like a bridge to the ‘adult’ generation of our family, mostly because I was part of the youngest generation among our cousins. I cannot imagine what it must have been like being the eldest and the responsibilities you may have had, but I will say I am proud of the Kuya you were for me. I will always remember the fun memories you made sure we had together especially with all our cousins – and all the food! Thank you for always looking out for us and for teaching me how important family is. I am so thankful to you for all you have done for our family and the endless support and advice you have given me. I know you loved us all so much and did your best to be a Kuya to everyone you met.
Rest in peace Kuya Jay.
Love,
Melodie (with the left hook)
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Jola de Mesa posted a condolence
Sunday, May 31, 2020
Rest In Peace Jay
May The Lord welcome you into His Kingdom. You are well loved by everyone who knows you. Your kindness, respectfulness & happy attitude is your trait. I always admire your love & care for your Mom. A wonderful son, brother, uncle, nephew & friend. We love you JJ.
Our sincere condolences to Baby, Ryan, Ivy, Christopher & all Lavides & Belen family
Love, de Mesa family
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Jordan S. lit a candle
Saturday, May 30, 2020
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Its an honor to have got the chance to meet such a high spirited person. Jay it has been a blessing to call you my friend, even though our time was short. You have a kind soul, funny, always smiling, always joking and you will be truly missed.
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Monica posted a condolence
Saturday, May 30, 2020
Dear Jay, Belen Belen Mo melon! I am happy to have known such a thoughtful, kind hearted person. You always managed to make me laugh and keep my belly full. I’ll never forget you always sharing yours amazing Filipino cooking with me or the time you got a hole in one! You were so proud and excited to share. Thank you for brightening my days and being a good friend. Rest in Heaven and please watch over us. Love, MH
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Valerie lit a candle
Friday, May 29, 2020
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Rest in peace, Kuya Jayjay. You were always so kind, welcoming, and easy to talk to at family gatherings. We are all so blessed to have met you and to be able to call you family. You will be dearly missed.
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Friday, May 29, 2020
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RIP Nino Jay. You have taught me so much and are such a big part of who I am. I miss you.
Love,
Christopher
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Christopher Belen uploaded photo(s)
Friday, May 29, 2020
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Rest In Peace My Dearest Brother. Your sweetness, kindness and good heart are the attributes that make you special and what will be missed the most. Thank you for being a great brother to me and Ryan and an even better uncle to Christopher. Thank you for making Ryan the man he is and whom I love. Thank you for instilling in our Christopher your love for life, loving personality, silliness, kindness, laugh, love of the ocean. Christopher tells me that he misses you and he can’t wait to see you again one day. My sweetest Jay, we all feel the same. Until that day, Rest In Peace in the Lords embrace.
Love,
Ivy and Christopher
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Friday, May 29, 2020
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To, Jay
Jay thank you for all the memories, for making us laugh , you were such a kind person. Always happy to be with and it was a pleasure knowing you. Now you are in a better place, may God Bless your soul. I know God will inbrace you in his arms. You will be missed and you will always be in our hearts forever. Thank you for being a good brother in law to our daughter and my sister Ivy . Rest In Peace. Our condolences to the family. From: The Rosa Family
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Friday, May 29, 2020
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Kuya Jay,
Thank you for being a big influence in my life. You shared what you had and taught what you knew. You taught me how to play sports, basketball/baseball/football and introduced me to the sports teams I still root for today. You also taught me to focus on the important areas in life, something you are continuing to teach today. You served a big part of raising me and all of our cousins. Family functions were always more special when you were around. You had this energy that created a bridge amongst the generations. You carried a big burden in unifying us, a trait I've always admired. You had the unique ability to be one of the adults in the room while being the biggest kid with the biggest smile that I gravitated towards. Most importantly, thank you for being a Kuya when I couldn't. I don't know what I would do if you weren't there. I love you cousin, thank you for being my Kuya.
- Roddy
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BG lit a candle
Friday, May 29, 2020
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RIP Belen!
We had many good memories on the golf course, Clinton Hall and even at the office.
Whenever you made your famous Filipino pork skewers you would always share with me at the office.
Whether it be in the office, with your family or even with your food - you were always being generous.
You will be missed!
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Josing Salas lit a candle
Thursday, May 28, 2020
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R.I.P Kuya JJ. I was very lucky that we were able to work together when you moved out here to L.A. years ago. That's when we both got a chance to know each other better. You made going to work fun. You taught me alot during that time. Im going to miss texting back and forth with you about your beloved Jets. You are deeply missed my cousin. We truly lost a good man. R.I.P
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Thursday, May 28, 2020
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Thank you for being the greatest Ninong to Christopher. He has so many interests influenced by you from swimming to golf. He adores his “Nino” and was always so excited to be around you. Whether it be your 6am Dunkin Donuts adventures or your milk shake trips together, he cherished them all. I promise to always have your memory with him forever. Love you always!
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Ryan de Mesa lit a candle
Thursday, May 28, 2020
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Jay was an amazing athlete and always made time to coach me with basketball and baseball. He was so positive and encouraging without trying. Whenever I play any sport with my boys he will always be with me. Thanks, Jay! I hope you are playing ball with the angels up in heaven.
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Kapil Vadher posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
He always stood out of all people by his cute character, funny nature and a big heart, I feel very lucky for having crossed paths with Jay. Thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort in heaven. My prayers are with his family. :( :(
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Kapil Vadher lit a candle
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
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Clarissa posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
Kuya Jay is such a very nice guy. He makes his way to everyone's heart. .such a good friend of the family.
He has tried his best not to show any of his pains despite any problem.
A very good guy that will surely be missed.
All our prayers for you,kuya Jay.
I am pretty sure that you will have a great time in heaven
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Juris Salas-Chow posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
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The Chow Family : Donald , Juris and kids Melanie, DC , Melissa sends our condolences for Jay’s passing
RIP . Jay so beloved by our family . A gentle , kind soul. Funny to be with , so loved . JJ will stay close to our hearts ;( so missed :(
Katie Goldsmith uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
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I only knew Kuya Jay for two short years, starting when he came to visit Rod and I in DC. I was immediately greeted with a big hug and knew that we would get along. Jay always filled the room with his presence and big personality and will be dearly missed. Attached is a photo from the baseball game we went to September 1, 2018. RIP Jay.
Tiffani Ann Garabedian uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
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When I moved back to the east coast after living on the west coast for many years, Jay was one of the first people I met at work. In fact, we both started the same day, 4/7/14. The office dynamic was something else. Him and his great friend JR sat across from each other. And I sat to the left of John. Jay appreciated my morning salutations and smiles. John said he wasn’t a fan , and not to talk to him until 10:30am. That’s the day I can say with certainty where our friendship began, the 3 of us. But to me, they were family.
Jay was there for me any time I needed to talk, cry, laugh, or vent. Even through job changers for the 3 of us... our bond remained strong. To say I am devastated is an understatement. And I can’t thank JR enough for including me in all our coffee runs, etc.
A piece of my heart is empty. Jay, I’ll never forget you or all the advice you gave me throughout the years. You were loved by everyone. I miss you already xo
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Brenda Vivelo posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
There is a saying that people are in your life for as long as they are meant to be. I am blessed to have worked with Jay and call him a friend. His constant smile, positive attitude, love of family and friends and his sharing his afternoon snacks with make me smile. He fought for his health and during his fight he never complained, just the opposite he would tell me how blessed he was. May your journey to heaven be swift, may you watch over your family and may you know how much you are missed. Rest in peace Jay.
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joy salas posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
JAYJAY is a household name in the SALAS FAMILY.
As far as I remember Jayjay was at the house everyday after school from San Sebastian College during his grade school years.
His lolo and lola my parents always make sure Jayjay is well fed with his merienda of banana cue or camote cue.
During the weekend I still saw him whole hanging around with Ate Baby his mom or uncles Louie or Vic when they are around enjoying Mang Tomas lechon.
Mire frequently than ever when RYAN was born my inaanak.
After sometime your family left for the States to join the rest of your family in Staten Island.
Still the ties didn't break.
The bonding grew stronger.
I was able to see you last year in May while you were doing your chemo treatment.
Jopet one of your cousins back here came with me.
He stayed with you for an overnight.
I'm sorry I can't be with you Jayjay in your last journey.
We will always remember you in our hearts.
Your cousins here will sure miss their best KUYA who always took good care of them like the way you took care of your brother RYAN.
My sympathy to the rest of the LAVIDES FAMILY....Toti Chie Louie Edith Vic and their families.
In God we trust and shine in HIS GLORY.
Bye for now!
Here comes your ANGELS to welcome you to God's glory and HAVEN.
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JR posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 27, 2020
You will be missed Jay, what started out as a conversation amongst coworkers turned into a life long friendship. You are a great friend and an even better person. Always made the day at work fun, forever positive and smiling even during the rough times. Whenever things got stressful you were able to put it all back in perspective. I will miss the Jets and Yankees games to backyard barbecues to happy hours at work, you made it all a blast. I'm grateful to have been able to call you a friend and consider you family. While you haved moved on to a better place, rest assured your impact on my life continues on.
Rest In Peace Jay, you will not be forgotten.
JR
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Wednesday, May 27, 2020
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You are the oldest among my nephews and nieces, and I had seen you grow up right under my eyes. I have vivid happy memories of you, a bubbly, chubby boy running around my tatay’s tailor shop in Atimonan. You fondly call my Tatay,
Lolo “Tahi”, as you tried on your newly tailored shirt and pants, with a beautiful smile on your face, which became your signature smile .When you were in grade school in Staten Is, I asked you what you want for your birthday, you said baseball gloves.One day, you must had been a HS senior, you showed me an old baseball gloves, and you said “I still got it Tita”. It was the same baseball gloves I gave you when you were in grade school.I was amazed with the sentimentality that is natural and sincere in your heart. You have a special way of making someone felt special and important.As the years go by, we become busy in life, but it didn’t stop you from catching up with me and my family. Over the last 8 years, we had grown closer. You would surprisingly drive to NJ with Ate Baby just to hang out and talk about silly stuff.When you got sick, we were hopeful that you will get better. That we can do a second long drive to Canada, maybe visit relatives in Australia, a long drive to Florida to see Ryan & family. Yes, we talked about it, we planned ! ..but God has His own plan for you. I can’t believe you’re gone. We will miss you. Thank you for the happy times and most of all, thank you for your love. May the angels of God guide you in your journey to His kingdom where there is no more pains and suffering. One day we will meet again.. one day we will see your beautiful, signature smile again. We love you Jayjay. Always, Tita Cecil
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Rest easy Jay , a good friend a brother , so many good times laughing always a bright smile that everyone will always remember. From work downtown and midtown, to Yankees games and group happy hours , steak lunches and so many laughs. Nelfanador , choys, Jr, thousands of daily group texts , rest easy bro you will never be forgotten, your bro. Rob
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Dearest Kuya, There are not enough words for me to use to describe how much you mean to me. I am blessed to have you as a brother and the special love that we share for each other. You have raised me from a child and groomed me to be the man that I try to be today. You were my first super hero, the role model that I always wanted to be. I always had admiration of what my big brother could do.
After all the life lessons and challenges that we have faced together, you always made sure to guide and protect me while providing an unconditional love in order for us to overcome anything that comes our way.
You have always been my rock that strengthened me and that guiding support, even at times when I didn’t realize it.
Nobody will ever understand the bond that we have and I thank you for ensuring that we always maintained it. Laughs and cries, joys and sorrows, having you there by my side are memories cherished forever.
I wish to see your smile again and hear your laughter once more but I pray that you are looking over me with Grandma now and I hope to always make you both happy.
I promise to teach Christopher as you have taught me and share the strength that you gave me. It’s hard to believe that you are not here with us anymore but your spirit will always be in our hearts.
You were the best man at my wedding and you will forever be the best man of my life. Rest well. I’ll see you again someday.
I miss you brother. I love you always, Mahal kita my dearest Kuya.
Ryan
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