Contributions to the tribute of Thomas J. Nolan

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Shumita Basu posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 16, 2023

Tom was my father-in-law. Or as I called him: “Tomashu,” a kind of personalized Persian-language nickname I affectionately gave him when I married his step-son Michael. The relationship between a father-in-law and daughter-in-law isn’t often talked about. There aren’t any common cliches or assumptions. But I’ve found my relationship with Tom to be one of unexpected sweetness and immediate, unconditional love. See, Tom had a ritual in these past few years. Every evening, he would go on his computer and listen to my news podcast. And he didn’t miss a single episode. I know that he didn’t because he told me so, and anytime I’d see him or talk to him, he had something to say about a story or interview. Many of you probably know Tom was very interested in current affairs. He read the Staten Island Advance daily, watched the news and kept up with his sports blogs. He wanted to be up-to-date and in-the-know, and was interested in the state of the city, the country, the state of the world. But what Tom’s evening listening ritual said to me is Tom was deeply invested in the state of this family. His later-in-life “found” family. Tom and I had all these things to talk about because he took such an interest in having something to talk about with me. And that’s never been lost on me. It's just one example of many acts of thoughtfulness and love. I’ll cherish my memories with him, and will miss him dearly.

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Jody Caccese posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 15, 2023

I never knew he was at Woodstock! We met at my uncles bar, a local hangout! N he did sing! A group of us would always harmonize to the songs on the jukebox! He Loved his oldies n fact we went to quite a few oldies shows with a bunch of friends n the group even ventured down to Atlantic City to c the Duprees! He even taught me to do the hustle, remember that dance! I think of all the fun we had at the Jersey Shore all those years ago! N since Covid we weren’t able to c each other for the last few years! Thank goodness for the phone! He was a wonderful man n n even greater friend n I shall miss him terribly RIP T! Your Punky!❤️❤️❤️

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Cynthia Blair Hill lit a candle

Monday, August 14, 2023

My condolences go out to everyone who knew Tom. A friend and a fun co worker from back in the days. You will be missed Tom for sure. Love you Linda, my sincerest condolences to you and know I am here for you always. Rest in Peace Tom.

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Joe and Grace Conti posted a condolence

Monday, August 14, 2023

Grace and I were so sad to hear the news. I known "T" for over 50 years and he never had a bad word for anyone. Though we're miles apart right now he is in our hearts. Rest in Peace my friend. JOE AND GRACE CONTI

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Monday, August 14, 2023

Thomas J. Nolan

1947 - 2023

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