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5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Monday, September 9, 2024
Matthew Funeral Home And Cremation Services, Inc.
2508 Victory Blvd.
Staten Island, New York, United States
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Zya Johnson posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2024
Hi Papa Whitey I love you. & I wanna thank you for always being there for me & being a great dad to my dad Luis and my aunt Nurjannah and grandpa to us Tyler and Xavier . I remember when me Corey and Zy’Ella came up to see you and grandma you had cooked 10 different meals for us we were not expecting it , it made us so happy and we laughed about it. We were much appreciative & you were so welcoming. You always made sure people felt your love , & that’s apart of what makes you an awesome guy! You will be very missed and we love you ! Zya
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Monday, September 9, 2024
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Dear papa,
My heart is so heavy, there is nothing that can ease the ache in my chest. There is not one moment in my life where you were not present. My earliest memory of you is being at your job where all the taxi cab drivers come to start their shifts, it was so dark and we were under a bridge. I saw your coworker kneeled and I asked you what he was doing, you lowered your voice and told me he was praying and not to judge. You explained who he was praying to and where he came from.. you spoke to me like you knew I could understand. I remember being so small.
You never treated me like I could not do something, you were always so gentle in your teachings. You gave everyone a second chance but you never let your kindness mistaken for weakness. You were brilliant and traveled across the world yet found the most comfort with your family in Staten Island. You experienced so much in your life and still found a way to see a brighter side in this world. You have never judged me, you have never turned your back on me. You always fed me, kept me in new clothes, with a toy or game that I begged for. When I told you I changed my name you never questioned me or made me second guess myself. You quickly adapted when no one else could put their ego away. I am so sorry if I failed you.
I wish I could’ve told you I was going to change my last name to Wahid for you, I just wanted to surprise you. I am so sad you won’t be here for my birthday, you have never missed an important day for any one of us and truly dedicated that entire day to us feeling loved. I will never forget your love, I miss you so much.
There is so much more I want to say and I wish it was to your face. Thank you for always smiling and accepting everyone for who they are. I love you papa so so so much
- Tyler
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Monday, September 9, 2024
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Papa,
You have always been such a kind, gentle person. From the day I first met you, you’ve welcomed me and treated me so kindly. I’ve always appreciated your welcoming personality. The way I’ve seen you treat your family is entirely selfless; you showed them so much genuine love and care. I always think of how much you cared for Tyler and I, telling us to take care of each other. You always greeted us with a warm hug, a kiss on the cheek, and delicious food. You always made sure that we were fed. Your family has so much love for you, there is absolutely a big hole in everyone’s hearts. I know that you’ll always be there to protect your family and guide them through.
We all miss you, thank you for everything.
Bri
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Maurice posted a condolence
Sunday, September 8, 2024
I will always remember as a kid how welcoming he was. and his soft spoken voice. He made me feel comfortable when visiting my BEST FRIEND, LOU. Prayers for strength goes out to his entire family. May God keep the family strong.
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Sunday, September 8, 2024
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Hey Dad,
I want to thank you for raising me the best you can. Raising me as a very little boy in Spanish Harlem, teenage years through the boogy down Bronx, and the slums of Shaolin. You was a big impact in my life. A man from Indonesia looking like Mr. Miyagi that was fearless in New York. You had strong faith, character, strictness, wisdom, experience, knowledge, and great work ethic. You said so many jewels to me that I didn't take serious, but you always said when I get older I'll understand and boy did I. Dad you gave me everything I wanted. A Boombox, Goose Downs, any sneakers I wanted, Sheep Skins, and mad money. You always took care of me. All the way to college. Even till I became a grown man you still look out. Thank you for giving me a beautiful, kind, humble, caring sister Nurjannah Wahid. She is awesome. Thank you for always being kind and showing love to my family. As I read these comments you was very love and made impacts in people's life Dad. I will miss all your saying and mannerism. I'll miss you coming down the stairs and asking me do I want coffee for over 30 years and I'll said no Dad you know I don't drink coffee. I will miss you making your chicken parmesan for me Dad. You was a very intelligent man Dad. A mysterious man that intrigue me. I definitely look up to you. You wasn't scare of no one. I seen you back down from no one. Having like 5 different dinners on the table that you will chef up in 30 minutes. You had so many skills Dad. Reading what you did in Indonesia and USA, what a career, adventure, and life experiences you had. What a resume you got. Thank you for giving my cousins money or taking them on vacations. I will miss you souping up your 1977 Caprice Classic with the boomerang antenna in the back. You was into cars, cameras, and electronics. Thank you for getting me into liking the sports of boxing. You love Marvelous Hagler, Sugar Ray, Boom Boom Mancini and all the greats in that era.. I will miss talking to you about the Yankees and the Giants. A prideful man! Such a coincidence we was both born on the same day December 10th. I guess it was meant for you to be my Father. You always be my number one Dad! Dad I can go on and on about you and there so many memories. Just wanted to let you know I always love you! You will be very miss! Thank you for being in my life and raising me Dad. Love you Luisito.
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Millie Albert lit a candle
Sunday, September 8, 2024
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My deepest condolences and prayers go out to my aunt Ada, and Cousins : Jose , Nurjannah,
Jose Jr. , Zya, Tyler, Xavier, and Marquez.
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Sunday, September 8, 2024
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Dear Uncle Wahid,
Where do I begin......
With a heavy heart I'm trying to find the words to tell you how much you meant to me and all the love you shared and fond memories you bring me back to growing up.
I loved coming to your house as a kid. I loved watching your home made movies of the family with Kenny Rodgers playing in the back ground lol. I loved watching your video collections on pop music of the 80's, Ahhhh those were the good old days. I loved your movie collection and riding in your big White Lincoln town car with the Tv in it and big antenna on the back. I loved going to your restaurant in Brooklyn at 2 am with Ada and Jannah riding the trains to get there and the big old burgers you would make us and my chocolate sundaes or milk shakes. You were never to busy to cater to us. I miss bickering with Ada and you laughing at us and saying ..."You Aunt crazy Millie lol "... Come on Hunny that's you Niece .. be nice lol. I remember our trips to Hoopers and the big lights outside and going on those trips to Atlantic City and city Island and our Niagara Falls trip where me and Luis fought the whole time and you would laugh at us and let me record on your camera and laugh at my insane childish ramblings as a reporter.
I miss sleeping on your bedroom floor with my cousins and the AC blasting and making it so cold we all would cuddle.
Hey...I still sleep with a fan on to this day because of that.
Ill never hear you say...come on Millie Eat ..you hungry ? Or be nice to Tony.
I remember you chasing Toy around to cuddle her at night. Spraying scruffy with roach spray lol. oh Wahid there can never be another you.
I can go on and on of all the funny laughs and times we had.
You were an amazing man and Uncle to me. I loved the way you loved your family and your advice and kindness and generosity to so many people. Always asking ...Millie...how's you Mom and Tushie and your brothers!! Tell them hello for me. Always asking for Tony and the kids.
Such a big heart, such a big smile and laugh to fill a room.
Wahid thank you for never judging me and inviting me to share in your life and family. I appreciate all that love and warmth you shared. I know its hard to find such goodness in this world we live in. But your light was bright and I know God has a special place for it to shine on.
I hope a table of fish and the finest white rice and vegetables and coconut pie was prepared for you!
Please forgive my absence for your wake and know my heart and prayers are with you.
I love you Big Head and Ill see you later. Save me some pie.
MUAHHHH!!!!
Love always your niece,
Millie
Dedicated Song : Once upon a time in Paris by Erik Satie
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" Your Life was a blessing,
your memory a treasure,
you are loved beyond words
and missed beyond measure."
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Alex Vazquez posted a condolence
Sunday, September 8, 2024
Wahid will always be remembered by me as the father of my cousin. When I tried to get his real father to be there for him, Wahid graciously took him in as his own and bought him things my dad would even buy me. It is hard now days to get fathers to stick around and be an active part of their children’s lives. May you find grace with God for this beautiful act of kindness.
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Saturday, September 7, 2024
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I will always remember your laughter, big smile, and what seemed to me, your endless pot of white rice!
I will remember your quietness, your humble spirit, and gentle mannerisms.
I will always remember the kindness you’ve shown me.
I have countless memories of summers past spent with you and the family; I only wish I had more photos of you to treasure, but you were always behind the camera, capturing the moments.
Until we meet again, say hello to dad for me. I love you
Sarah
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Saturday, September 7, 2024
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I will miss you Wahidy. You were always generous and kind to me. I remember you helped me to find my first car. You took me and my wife all the way to the dealer in PA. I never heard you talking bad about anyone. Rest in peace brother.
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Farewell to my favorite brother-in-law. I will miss you and all our texting back and forth with, laughter, and advice to take care, love, and help one another. You are very sweet, kind man and very helpful to those who need it. You were loved by all and will be sorely missed by everyone you know, especially your grandchildren, daughter, son and wife. We will always keep you close to our heart and will always remember you.
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Brian Vazquez posted a condolence
Saturday, September 7, 2024
Uncle Whitey, thanks for all the kind gestures and great food u made for us. Glad I got to see you last year. It was great to just catch up amd share memories. Rest in peace.
Love Always
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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From the moment I met papa, he was immensely sweet and kind to me. He would make sure you were taken care of and welcome you as though you were his own family. Spending holidays and birthdays at his house was so special. Papa would always decorate the house and make you feel loved and appreciated. His presence radiated nothing but warmth and pure joy to have his loved ones around. I will miss him very much, rest in peace papa.
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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I don't understand why this has to happen. I loved him so much, I don't have a father ,he was my father.
He always did everything for us, every action he did growing up was to make sure we had everything. I texted him everyday and went to visit as much as I could. I wish I saw him one last time. I wished we talked one last time.
I don't like the feeling , l'm carrying on my days like everything is normal, I think I can't accept it. But it feels wrong to do that.
I miss him,l will do everything and anything for him If anyone has anyone suffering, reach out to them.
I miss you papa. I love you.
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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Your loved one’s memory will live on in all the lives you touched. May you find peace in those memories, and comfort in knowing that your spirit will continue to surround us. You will never be forgotten, as your presence continues to resonate in the hearts of those who knew and loved you.
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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My condolences to the family. Abdul had the warmest, sweetest smile I’ve ever seen. He was so thoughtful and kind and I’ve seen how loving he was. Rest in peace
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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My deepest condolences to my family, love you dearly, feeling your pain and all the hurt. I do remember his beautiful smile and delicious food, such a sweet soul. My prayers of peace and comfort to the family. Rest in Peace Papa Wahid. With lots of love.
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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Uncle Wahid, though the busy spells of life did not allow us to see each other as often as I would have liked , the memories of how you’ve always treated me , are in my heart and mind, as if it was just yesterday. You have always been kind to me and always, always, told me that you were proud of what I have accomplished in life. You always had that patience. I remember one time, when I was little and you and Aunt Aida took me to Playland and I got on so many rides. I was so happy that day. I felt spoiled and had so much fun. On the way home though, I got nauseas and sick in your car . I thought you would be upset but you just said “ It’s ok, it happens when you have so much fun like that “. I remember pieces of life, here and there, where I had the opportunity to stay at your house and you always gave me good advice, when I was little. I carried a lot of that advice with me through the years. I’m thankful to you and never forgot. You will always be in my heart. Rest in peace and know that you are loved by so many .
Love, Kelly
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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Nurjannah lit a candle
Friday, September 6, 2024
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Friday, September 6, 2024
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Dad,
I hope you can now see how much you are loved and the impact you had on our family. Although my heart is broken, I have comfort in knowing that your mind is at peace. Please continue to watch over my kids. You were the best grandfather anyone could ever have. My kids are kind and loving because of all the love you showed them and showed me. Thank you so much for taking care of all of us all these years. Luis and I will carry all the great memories and life lessons you have taught us down to our own grandchildren. You don’t have to worry anymore. We will look after mommy now.
I wish I could have one last hug and kiss on top of my head. I love you so so much, rest in peace dad. Love always Nurjannah
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