Common Jewish Funeral Practices

By: Matthew Funeral Home
Monday, February 3, 2025

While green burials tend to be a newer concept, making choices in your funeral plans to be more eco-friendly is not. The Jewish faith and tradition tend to follow more eco-friendly practices. This article will discuss some of the practices common in Jewish burial according to the religious laws of the Faith. While not all those of the Jewish faith follow these traditions, the practices listed below are more common among those of the faith. This is written as a guide for others to understand what they might expect at a Jewish funeral. Individual denominations and families may choose to adjust their wishes to their own specifications. 

Shiva

It is common practice for the family to be “sitting shiva” for seven days after the death of a loved one. Mourners typically stay at home, rather than attending work or school. Individuals are often encouraged to visit the family at home at certain times. Contact the family for more information on shiva visits.

Jewish Law and Casket Choice

Generally, those of the Jewish faith opt for simple, natural caskets. Where possible, wood is used rather than metals. This may include using dowels instead of metal hinges or nails. This is because Jewish custom states that the entire casket should be biodegradable. More lavish caskets are not usually used, as this practice shows that all are equal in death. 
Caskets made for Jewish burial may have holes in the bottom. This is done to hasten the decomposition and help return the body to the earth. Each of these practices helps reduce the overall environmental impact of the burial and returns the deceased back to nature quicker.

Judaism and Embalming Practices

Following the more natural principles of the Jewish faith, embalming is often not used. Or, at the very least, used sparingly. The body is washed before being placed under a burial shroud or in the clothing chosen by the family. Cremation is accepted among some sects of the faith. For example, Orthodox and Conservative sects generally frown upon the practice, while reform denominations often accept it. It is quickly becoming more popular among those of the reformed faith. 

Organ Donation

Organ donation is generally accepted across all practices of the Jewish faith. Judaism encourages organ donation to help save the lives of others. Beyond the donation of organs, the Jewish faith shows that respect for the deceased is a vital practice. Therefore, the body should be interred as soon as the donations are made.

Jewish Funerals and Flowers

Generally, flowers are discouraged at a Jewish funeral. Generally, donations to charity in the name of the deceased are encouraged, instead. Some families will provide names of charities or groups close to the deceased. Feel free to ask the family if they would prefer donations over flowers, or contact their funeral home for more information.
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