Comfort Food for Grieving Families

By: Matthew Funeral Home
Monday, October 12, 2020

When suffering from the loss of a loved one, having a hot, home-cooked meal is probably the last thing on the mind. Thankfully, it is a common practice for friends and family to bring trays of food to the immediate family of the deceased. A meal prepared by people who care can be one of the best remedies for the grieving heart. This article will focus on what to look for in food preparation when making a dish for a grieving family.

Fresh Ingredients

Healthy eating is easily overlooked during grief. Stress from grief can weigh heavily on the body, and will use up energy and nutrients. Preparing a dish with fresh vegetables and other nutritious ingredients can be a good way to make sure that the people you care about are eating right. Proteins like chicken or beef can make the dish more filling. Keep dietary restrictions of the family in mind when preparing food for them.

Easy Dishes

You don’t have to make something overly complex. Simple meals that are easy to transport, freeze, or heat up are the best. Dishes that are harder to deal with can become a challenge for those dealing with grief. Casseroles, lasagna, soups, and other pasta dishes are common comfort foods given to families in mourning.

You Don’t Have to Prepare a Ton of Food

Odds are, many loved ones will be giving food to the family of the deceased. You don’t have to make enough food for an army. A tray is probably more than enough. If you feel like contributing more, wait a week or so, then check in to see how they are doing when you bring the tray.

Catering

If you do not cook, or do not have time, consider ordering a dish or two from a local restaurant or store. It may not be as personal as a home-cooked meal, but it will be helpful all the same. 

Emotional Support Through Food

Food can be very cathartic to the grieving spirit. A family, however broken, can find some comfort in a warm meal and full bellies. A good meal can make one feel more energetic and calmer. Even just knowing that there is someone there who can send a plate of food when you are in need, can be healing. 

For over 50 years, Matthew Funeral Home has been serving the Staten Island community. We can help with almost every aspect of your loved one’s memorial service. Our family is here to serve yours, every step of the way

Leave a comment
Name*:
Email:
Comment*:
Please enter the numbers and letters you see in the image. Note that the case of the letters entered matters.

Comments

Please wait

Previous Posts

25 Years After 9/11

    Every year, Americans remember those we lost in the tragic 9/11 attacks in 2001. But for many New Yorkers, the tragedy was much more personal. For many of us, 9/11 affected those...

Planning For Retirement with No Children

    According to a Pew Research Center study, more than 1 in 5 Americans aged 50 and older do not have children. Preparing for your retirement without children to lean on can be diff...

Grieving A Pet

    Pets are always there for us. They greet us at the door when we come home; they keep us company, and they comfort us when we need cheering up. Your pets aren’t just animals; they...

Music and Working Through Your Grief

Music is an essential part of the human social experience. IT helps us tell stories, share emotions, and express our thoughts. Music can also play key roles in society. One way it can help in every...

Picking Out an Urn for Your Loved One

There are many things to consider when choosing an urn for your loved one’s cremated remains. Urns come in a wide array of shapes, sizes, colors, styles, and materials. It can be difficult to figur...

Important Funeral Terms

    When planning a loved one’s funeral or learning more for your own pre-planning needs, it can be important to know what you want. In the funeral service industry, there are also t...

Questions to Ask When Pre-Planning Your Funeral

Pre-planning your funeral may seem strange, but it is a practice that can help you and your family in the future. People often see pre-planning a funeral as morbid, similar to how many people feel ...

Talking to Older Family Members About the Past

Talking with an elder loved one about their life can be a great way to learn more about them and your family history. Often, it is easy to forget our connections to our ancestors and our family li...

Losing an Elderly Loved One

Grief affects us all differently, especially when the one we lost was a huge part of our lives. After the loss of an elderly individual, grief can be a strange thing. On one hand, they lived a full...

Why Cremation Is Becoming More Popular

Cremation is becoming more popular each year. In New York, the rate of cremation to traditional burial is almost 1-to-1. In this article, we will explore the reasons why you should consider cremati...